I am excited to be a Referral Network Member of How We Love! In marriage or couples counseling, my favorite approach is utilizing a blend of the How We Love model founded by Milan & Kay Yerkovich with Temperament Assessment. We will look at the way your childhood experiences shaped how you relate to one another and identify your personal Love Style. When we understand our early attachment imprints alongside our temperaments we can begin to see how these styles of relating create a pattern or a dance within our marriage. Sometimes without meaning to, these attachment wounds trigger each other’s unmet needs and innermost insecurities. It is often here that our relationships get stuck on a cycle that plays out over and over again. By uncovering these hidden blueprints, we can work together to untangle your repetitive, frustrating communication loops. Together we will identify temperaments, Love Styles, and the Core Pattern happening in your relationship and work toward applying healing tools to create a more secure and stronger bond between you and your spouse.

*This approach can also be utilized with parent/child relationships.